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"हमारी बाहर की दुनिया हमारी
अंदर की दुनिया का सटीक प्रतिबिम्ब है " 

I cordially welcome you to my blog and hope the information shared here will add value to you and your loved one's lives.

I am Life Coach, Explorer, Humanist.  I am a researcher in the field of human behaviour, energy psychology and living the life based on universal principals.  I found out that what is left with us after gaining knowledge and going through experiences, on which we act and put into practice in living our life is the actual wisdom offered by Nature - I call it Insights.  These insights direct us, inspire us and become our guide to not only live our life to the fullest but also to experience peace, tranquillity and compassion.

With these thoughts, I decided to share the insights of my life with my fellow human beings, with the hope that these may help some of them in leading their lives with passion, follow their calling, inspiring fellow human beings and of course making this beautiful life worth living each and every moment.


गलतियों को स्वीकार करना कमज़ोरी नहीं, कमज़ोरी से ताकत की तरफ बढ़ने का पहला कदम है। (वीडियो ब्लॉग)

गलतियां किसी से भी हो सकती हैं। और अगर इंसानी रूप में देखें तो हम गलतियों से ही सीखतें है। लेकिन problem तब खड़ी होती है जब हम औरों की गलतियों को तो highlight करतें हैं और खुद की गलतियों को defend.
जिस दिन से हम अपनी ग़लतियों को डिफेंड करना या उनके  होने का कारण किसी और इंसान को ठहराना बंद कर देतें है, वही से एक नए future की शुरुआत करतें हैं। गलतियों को स्वीकार करना कमज़ोरी नहीं, कमज़ोरी से ताकत की तरफ बढ़ने का पहला कदम है। 
सम्बंधित विषय : हमारी सफलता हमारी आत्मछवि से ज़्यादा नहीं हो सकती 

इस सलग्न वीडियो में इसी बात पर विस्तार से चर्चा है । यह एक लाइव टीवी प्रोग्राम की रिकॉर्डिंग है जहां हमने सीधे लोगों से बात की और गलतियों के बारे में उनके विचार, उनके डरों और उनकी गलतियों को लेकर उनके नज़रियों को सुना और एक समाधान देने की कौशिश की है

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Mahesh Coach / Humanist / Researcher

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हमारी सफलता हमारी आत्मछवि से ज्यादा नहीं हो सकती |

हमारीआत्मछवि का बहुत बड़ा सम्बन्ध है  हमारी सफलता, हमारे रिश्तों, हमारे स्वास्थ्य से ! कैसी है हमारी छवि हमारी नज़रों में !
दुनिया हमें कैसे देखती है इससे कहीं महत्वपूर्ण है हम खुद को कैसे देखते है ! सेल्फ इमेज या आत्मछवि वो अदृश्य शक्ति है जो हमें आगे बढ़ते रहने को प्रेरित करती है या  हमें पीछे कि तरफ खींचती है, जो हमें मौको को इस्तेमाल करने कि प्रेरणा देती है या उन्हें हाथ से निकल जाने देती है, जो हमें प्रतिष्ठा दिलाती है या जो हमें प्रतिष्ठा लायक नहीं बनने देती ! 
अगर ऐसा कहें तो अनुचित नहीं होगा कि हमारी सफलता हमारी आत्मछवि से बेहतर नहीं हो सकती।   तो जब हमें वो मनचाही सफलता नहीं मिल रही होती जिसके लिए हम प्रयास कर रहे होतें हैं , हम वो ऊचाइयां नहीं छु रहे होते जिन्हे हम छूना  चाहते हैं, हमें अपने रिश्तों में वो गहराई नहीं मिल रही होती  जिसे हम पाना चाहते है - तब हमें उसका कारण बाहर नहीं ढूढ़ना चाहिए, क्यूंकि वो बाहर है ही नहीं, तब हमें अपने अंदर जाना चाहिए क्यूंकि कारण अंदर है।  कारण,  हमारी अपनी नज़रों में हमारी कैसी छवि है , वहाँ है।  हम खुद को कैसे देखते है, खुद के बारे में क्या स…

Why I feel EFT is a paradigm shift in self-development field ?

When I was introduced to EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) in the year 2008, it was like I found the missing link which I was searching for.   Emotions play vital role in our success, relationships and self growth. Before that nobody gave the approval that emotions play a vital role in our success, relationships and self-growth.  Everyone I met, including the alternative healing masters, some spiritual gurus or leadership coaches - they told me or rather informed me and tried their best to prove me that emotions are nothing but a sign of weakness and I should have a practical approach towards life - I should consider Mind - I should consider Occult things - I should be looking to inculcate leadership qualities - But no one told me or even validated my point on emotions.

Well I am really thankful for all those who came into my life, criticized me, taught me, dis-approved my observations, advised me, directed me - because they have done so with their own experience, and what they felt…

How my own individual act has any significant impact on the good or bad of the society at large?

(Short Article Series) Photo by Steinar Engeland on Unsplash
Many times this question comes in front of me in different forms that  "what will happen if I do it right, everyone else is doing otherwise ?"   "Till all of us won't do something in this direction nothing can change!". "No impact can be made by my little action or deed unless others do the same!"
What difference does it make?And it comes in both ways, good or bad.  What difference does it can make if I do some act of kindness, compassion or respect, especially when I am surrounded by people who are selfish, opportunistic or shallow?

And on the other side - what is the big deal if I also do something that others are doing like cheating, taking advantage, telling lies - after all I need to survive - and suppose I change my ways, will it change the situation in any way?
I believe that most of us - even at higher levels - sometimes in our lives came across these feeling in our own ways.  And we justify…

Mistakes are phenomenal !!! Learn from them & Grow. (Video Blog (Hindi))

When I understoodthe actual meaning of "mistake" I was astonished to find that how I was taking MISTAKES as earlier. I was thinking about MISTAKES as weakness, I was thinking if I would commit some mistakes, it would mean I was not worth it, it would mean I was a duffer, it would mean  I didn't know to do the things in a right way and so on..................  Actually truly speaking I chased perfection so hard that when I happened to commit any mistake it made me feel inferior, weak, powerless and susceptible to more mistakes.  And at one point it was like, I had nightmares of committing mistakes. Though I have heard that Thomas Alva Edison failed 1000 times in making a bulb and lot more stories like these, still it was altogether a different story when it all came to me personally. 
But after reading hundreds of books, after attending hundreds of seminars and after conducting and addressed lots of workshops personally - I found that MISTAKES are not bad, not a weakness, …

While SPEAKING influences, LISTENING creates impact?

The emphasis is there on speaking.  A good orator, a speaker, one who can mesmerize by his words, who can influence the whole outcome, who can dominate the environment by his sheer pitch - is the person having an advantage over one who is not that apt in speaking, in putting forward his point, requires thinking and contemplation before speaking.

And that's the reason there is very heavy emphasis given on speaking. whether in your personal or professional life  - the SPEAKING is at the forefront of Influence.

Some can speak well, some can't. Some try hard to speak, some have it in their genes.

But what about LISTENING. The subtle, seemingly slow and dull process of listening. Taken for granted. Not ahead of the pack. Taken as a lack of initiative and many a time not given enough emphasis.

And compared to speaking, listening is not talked about. Its most of the times taken for granted.

But is it that obvious?

Listening is not passive  Listening is as active as speaking. Or if I …